海外健康資訊網(wǎng)站“積極的力量(Power of Positive)”發(fā)表的一篇文章提出,與傲慢自負的人相比,低調(diào)的人往往非常更友好和無私�!斗e極心理學雜志》(The Journal of Positive Psychology)上發(fā)表的一項研究表示,研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn),低調(diào)的人更愿意出于利他的原因,自愿介入他人的事務。謙遜的行為特征與對整個社會的益處之間再次形成了強烈的相關性。According to an article on the website Power of Positive, as a rule, low-key folks tend to be very helpful and selfless, especially when compared to the more arrogant and egotistical among us. In a meta-study published in The Journal of Positive Psychology, researchers found that low-key people are more willing to voluntarily insert themselves into the affairs of others for altruistic reasons. Once again, a strong correlation was made between humble behavior characteristics and benefits to society as a whole.
國外社交問答網(wǎng)站Quora的一位用戶羅什安·德西(Roshan Desai)在“保持低調(diào)有什么好處”的提問下回答說,“我花了很長時間才意識到,我正在做可以稱為‘低調(diào)’的事情。在這個過程中,我能夠觀察到很多低調(diào)帶來的優(yōu)勢。”“It took me a long time to realize that I was, subconsciously, doing the very things that can be classified as ‘staying low key.’ In the process of doing that, I have been able to observe a lot of advantages,” Roshan Desai wrote in response to the question, “What are the advantages of staying low key?” on Quora.
他總結了自己的經(jīng)驗和觀察,認為在人群中保持低調(diào)能夠幫助自己遠離雜音,使自己比同齡人更有優(yōu)勢,也能有效避開“不利于自己實現(xiàn)目標的人”。He summarized his experiences and observations that being low-key in a crowd helps people stay away from the chaff, giving them an edge over peers, and effectively avoid people “who are not conducive to your goals.”
關于“偷感”這一話題,也有不少網(wǎng)友發(fā)表了自己的看法。有人用《送東陽馬生序》里的話勉勵自己,認為所謂的偷感恰恰來自內(nèi)心的充實。“以中有足樂者,不知口體之奉不若人也。”
也有人表示不必在意他人的眼光,因為每個人都是自己人生的主角。
人民日報評論則引用史鐵生在《病隙碎筆》中的話鼓勵“偷感人”,“且視他人之疑目如盞盞鬼火,大膽地去走你的夜路。”
你是一個“偷感”很重的人嗎?在評論區(qū)大膽說出你的想法吧~
綜合來源:BBC地道英語、大眾書局、Power of Positive、人民日報評論、知著網(wǎng)
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